The golden rule is to request a kiss when she is at her most relaxed. That traditional opportunity—the conclusion of a date, whether it's the first or the second—is great. You've gotten to know each other, walked her home, and then there's a long quiet. If you ask right now, she won't be surprised. She'll be flattered.
The worst time is right after they've had a fight. In fact, even when they're happy, you shouldn't kiss someone right after they've been drinking wine or eating chocolate. Their mouths are likely to taste like peppermint sticks or melted candy bars.
The best time is well before you go on your date. Tell your friends you want to give your girlfriend/boyfriend a kiss. Then stay away until the night of your date. By that time, your lips will feel like they belong to her. Plus, if you show up late, you'll have to wait even longer for her to kiss you back!
Of course, you can also kiss her after you get home. But don't expect her to remember what you did for her last week. She's more likely to think about all the things you didn't do for her.
It's all about timing. A kiss is appropriate at the conclusion of a date, when you're saying your goodbyes, while you're out for a stroll, or after you've just completed watching a movie. You'll note that all of these times are rather private and should be limited to just the two of you. This is critical!
There is no such thing as a perfect time. It may be before your first date, or it could be after you've known each other for a few weeks. Furthermore, even if the connection exists, she must be willing to kiss you. You must wait for everything—attraction and willingness—to align properly.
If you wait too long, she may abandon the kiss and you will be relegated to the friend zone. She will be thinking about the kiss at first, on the first or second date. By the third date, she may be ready and just waiting for you to make the first move.
She will be thinking about the kiss at first, on the first or second date. By the third date, she may be ready and just waiting for you to make the first move. By the fourth or fifth date, she may begin to doubt if you are truly interested in her.
I'll take her out to dinner on a conventional first date. I'll plant one on her as soon as we leave the restaurant if I'm intoxicated enough. Otherwise, I'll be a coward and wait till she's ready to go down the train stairs. Ladies, if you're up for a kiss, please make meaningful eye contact for several seconds at a time.
There is no perfect time. It may be before the first date, or it may not be until you have known each other for a few weeks. Moreover, even if the connection is there, she has to be willing to kiss you. You have to wait for everything-the attraction and the willingness-to line up perfectly.
It's tough to tell if she wants you to kiss her. She might be a bashful young lady or someone who isn't quite ready. As a result, it is critical that both of you are on the same page. Kissing her at the wrong time might lead to the following outcomes: She pulls away and adds, "I'll call you later" (which we know she never will).
I'll take her out to dinner on a conventional first date. I'll plant one on her as soon as we leave the restaurant if I'm intoxicated enough. Otherwise, I'll be a coward and wait till she's ready to go down the train stairs. Ladies, if you're up for a kiss, please make meaningful eye contact for several seconds at a time.
Tell her you want to kiss her confidently.