While men and women express themselves differently, some actions displayed by women may cause the male to lose interest without the woman even recognizing it. Women do these things unconsciously, and they are the reason why some men quit calling women. This is what happens: a guy meets a girl on Tinder and is smitten. She's beautiful, funny, and smart. He likes her photos and videos. They match quickly and easily, and he wants to see her again. But when he gets to know her better, he realizes that she doesn't fit into his life plan right now, so he moves on. This is how most of Tinder's million-plus users behave every day.
The reason men bail out so easily is because they're not used to dealing with emotions. A lot of times, women aren't aware of how they make men feel, so they continue to push guys away. If you want someone to stay interested in you, then you've got to show him or her feelings are important to you by returning their affection.
Here are 10 ways women can make men lose interest:
1. Being too nice all the time. Men like girls who are honest with them. If you pretend to like something when you don't, men will realize it and not buy your act. Be yourself; don't try to be someone else.
2. Giving men too much power over your life.
When they're chatting to a lady they find beautiful, they don't show any emotions or personalities. As a result, she doesn't feel anything when she talks to him, becomes bored soon, and wants to end the relationship. So, what do you do for a living? Man: Woman: My job title is accountant. Man: All right, that's alright. What does your job involve exactly? Woman: I do financial reports for companies. Man: (thinking) That must be fun. Why are you alone here in this bar? Woman: I came here with my work team but we decided not to come tonight so we can work on some projects next week instead. Man: (disappointed) Oh... Well, have a good night.
As you can see, most men when talking to a woman they find attractive, they become boring quickly and then ask irrelevant questions or say something stupid. This makes the woman feel uncomfortable and annoyed, which causes her to want to end the conversation as soon as possible.
The only exception to this rule is if you're a good conversationalist who knows how to make a girl laugh. In that case, even if you talk about important things like life or work, she'll still enjoy yourself and want to keep talking with you. However, if you go over time without asking anything or saying anything interesting, after a while you'll start to annoy her and she'll want to end the conversation too.
Men can prevent rejection by avoiding situations where it is possible. This anxiety might prevent a man from connecting with a woman unless he notices definite and apparent indicators of her interest. For example, if a man senses that a woman is interested in him, he will approach her out of curiosity rather than desperation. Otherwise, he would not know to try to make himself more attractive.
The most common reasons for this behavior are fear of commitment and fear of being hurt. A man may believe that if he interacts with every woman who shows an interest in him, then he will have no time for other relationships. He may also worry that if she rejects him once, she will do so again and again if given the chance. Some men may simply not want to put themselves through the pain of rejection.
These behaviors are very normal for men. They are meant to keep them safe and happy. Men should never be afraid to take risks or to commit to someone because of these fears. However, women need to understand that this is not how most men behave/think. Most men want to feel loved and needed, just like women do. All they require is a little push in the right direction!